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Sample Scale Development Guide

To help you create your personal 1-10 scale, consider what each level might feel like:

1 - "Not Developed at All"

  • What color, feeling, or metaphor represents this starting point?

2-3 - "Beginning Stages or Unclear"

  • What represents "not developed" for you?

  • How does disconnection or uncertainty feel?

4-6 - "In Progress, Some Development Present"

  • What does "middle ground" feel like for you?

  • How do you experience partial development?

7-9 - "Mostly There, Minor Adjustments Needed"

  • How does this feel different from your "10"?

  • What sensations or colors represent this level?

10 - "Exactly How I Want It"

  • What color represents this perfect state?

  • What does it feel like in your body?

  • What metaphor or image captures this feeling?

  • What words or phrases resonate?

Remember: Your scale is completely personal. Use whatever sensory language, metaphors, colors, or feelings resonate with your unique ADHD brain.

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Mental Support Group (MSG): Quick Guide

What is it?

A MSG is an imaginary group of supportive people you create in your mind to build confidence and self-worth. They believe in you unconditionally and help you reach your potential.

Why does it matter?

  • Strengthens your sense of self and identity

  • Provides constant emotional support

  • Helps you make decisions and take healthy risks

  • Always accessible in your imagination

How to build your MSG:

1. Real people you trust completely

  • Choose people who make you feel emotionally safe

  • Can be anyone: family, friends, teachers, mentors

  • Only include people you trust 100%

  • Few people is totally fine—quality over quantity

  • You can add or remove people anytime

2. Public figures or characters

  • People from books, movies, TV, history

  • Ask yourself: "Would they support me reaching my potential?"

  • If yes, they're in

3. Imaginary figures

  • Create your ideal mentor, parent, or guide

  • Use cartoon characters or superheroes if they help you feel safe and strong

How to use it:

Imagine a special place (beach, cozy room, anywhere comfortable) where your MSG meets.

Have them tell you they're there to support you—no judgment, just belief in you.

Talk to them when you need encouragement, have to make decisions, or face challenges.

Important notes:

  • Don't judge yourself for doing this—it's a powerful mental health tool

  • Keep your MSG private or share only with trusted people who'll support the practice

  • This strengthens your relationship with yourself over time

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Your Emotional Safe Place (ESP)

What is it?

A mental place you create where you feel completely calm, safe, and peaceful. Your brain responds to imagined places similarly to real ones, so visualizing your ESP can genuinely help you feel better.

How to create your ESP:

  • Remember real places where you felt peaceful

  • Use your imagination—anything is possible!

  • Include what appeals to your senses: sights, sounds, textures, smells

  • Change anything that doesn't feel right

  • Add protective boundaries (like a moat or secret entrance) to keep it truly safe

  • Important: No judgment, criticism, or negativity exists here

Keep it accessible:

  • Make a collage or collect pictures that represent your ESP

  • Keep reminders where you'll see them often (desk, phone background)

  • Surround yourself with small items that remind you of it

When to use your ESP:

  • When you need to calm down or refocus

  • If you're having trouble sleeping

  • During stressful moments

  • As a quick mental reset when your attention wanders

  • To boost confidence

Privacy tip: Your ESP is personal—only share it with people you trust completely.

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